Human personalities are hooked on drama – whether they admit it or not. It’s in the habits we cherish, the things we do and think that make us feel comfortable, be they positive or negative.
Being on the ascension path means dropping all these habits and patterns we’ve carried with us for the longest time – and not just in this lifetime either.
It’s not only the habits we treasure, but also the ailments we have toted around – for generations sometimes. Family karma.
Take an asthma program for instance. Let’s say that this imprint was installed in very early childhood. Imagine witnessing from the get go that furry animals would make your mother very sick – and your grandmother and your great-grand mother – so that she would be almost unable to breathe without heavy medication. So the little child starts seeing cats and dogs as the culprits for making the mother so sick that she could not take care of you anymore.
This is what we do to our children. We traumatize them for life by e.g. installing a belief system that they can’t be around cats and dogs – or any animal with fur or feathers for that matter – without having a severe allergic reaction. In this way, you deprive them from something that is innate to a human being – loving cuddles with a pet. Now cuddles become equal to feeling absolutely miserable, struggling for every single breath.
And so you grow up with an asthma program firmly in place. The belief system is being strengthened every single time you find yourself in the vicinity of pets, as the body starts to react immediately by shutting down the airways, clogging up the nose and making the eyes swell up and itchy. You learn that this is just how it is. It is something that is “genetically imprinted on the DNA and you just have to live with it and take your medication”.
But do you really? After all, we create our reality, and do we really want to have a program like that in it? I don’t think so.
So now you’re on your ascension path, shedding all the layers of the non self and reversing these programs one by one. That asthma program has got to go as well. It has never served you, and it is definitely not something you want to keep carrying with you into infinity! You know that it was never real to begin with. It’s nothing but a belief system you’ve completely identified with. It has nothing to do with DNA or family history, but everything with the attributes you put on it and how you deal with it. How real do you believe it to be?
And slowly but surely, you release that program. Cats become your best friends, being allowed to sleep on your pillow without eliciting the slightest physical reaction. Hallelujah! Program deleted… or so you thought.
Enter an adorable 10-year-old Labrador that still thinks he’s a big puppy. He’d sit on your lap if you let him. He’s love on four legs, looking at you with big, soppy brown eyes you just can’t resist. He’s very huggable…
And out of the depths of your memory banks the old belief system of cuddles equaling physical misery emerges again and plonks itself onto your chest, squeezing the life out of you. Your nose swells up, as do your eyes, and you feel like you’re choking. Breathing becomes an effort, and the slightest physical activity leaves you gasping for air for a long time. The program is literally trying to suck the life out of you.
This is where the drama queen enters the stage. If you’re not careful, you very easily identify with that program again you thought you’d let go of years ago. Like with any program that makes itself known in a very physical way – think of a toothache or a migraine – it is very present in your reality. It tries to keep your mind occupied with only one thought, which in this case is, “breathe”. And the more identified you become with that program, the more it hijacks your every waking moment… for weeks on end if you allow it.
This allowance is what I mean with playing the drama queen. You really don’t have to go through the motions if you don’t want to. Obviously you do, otherwise you wouldn’t let this go on for so long.
The good thing is that once you realize – again – what you’re doing, you can turn it around. In this case, the belief system that “cuddles equal physical misery” can be used to mean what cuddles are supposed to mean: Love. Healing. Feeling good.
So whereas the program tells you that furry pets are bad for your health, you install new neural pathways that use these furry pets to induce the healing of that childhood trauma.
You will notice very quickly that once your attitude changes, that program loses its grip on you. Your airways open up again. Every time you pet that big soppy sock of a Labrador, you breathe in LIFE.
Taking charge of your reality creation then is how you get rid of drama. Drama queens belong on the stage of an old reality, but they really have no place in the life of an ascending human.